Any questions and posts regardless of topic can be posted here. Forum moderators will answer these or move the topics to the appropriate forums and groups where required. Any questions and posts regardless of topic can be posted here. Site News, site changes, moderation policies and outages are also posted here.

New users should use this forum for getting started with Family Law issues. Moderators will answer these posts or move them to the appropriate forums, where required. Guest posts remain invisible until 'validated' by a Moderator.    

New users should use this forum for getting started with Child Support issues. Moderators will answer these posts or move them to the appropriate forums, where required. Guest posts remain invisible until 'validated' by a Moderator.

New users should use this forum for getting started with Parenting issues. Moderators will answer these posts or move them to the appropriate forums, where required. Guest posts remain invisible until 'validated' by a Moderator.

New users should use this forum for getting started with Health & Wellbeing issues. Moderators will answer these posts or move them to the appropriate forums, where required. Guest posts remain invisible until 'validated' by a Moderator.

Information and discussion on issues and matters that are not part of other forums.

If you have a passion and believe children should have quality time with both parents and you seek changes to Australian family law then these forums are for YOU! Case Law, Judgments, Appeals, Precedents, Judgments of Interest, Court rules

This is a READ ONLY forum and READ ONLY sub forums for those wishing to, or that have to represent themselves in either the Family Court of Australia or the Federal Magistrates Court or may be minimising their costs by using unbundled legal services.

SRL-Resources is a non political and non gender support organisation for those wishing or that have to represent themselves in either the Family Court of Australia or the Federal Magistrates Court or may be minimizing their costs by using unbundled legal services. SRL-R help with Children's Matters in the FCoA and FMC (Not CSA, DVOs or Local Courts unless the issue is 'Contact') This forum is for those who are going through the courts as self represented and want to discuss any issues relating to process, procedures and the documentation required. There are closed and member only forums associated to the SRL forum which will be hidden unless you have appropriate access by joining SRL-R.

For those people with orders that are re entering the Court system or would like to obtain fresh orders the 'threshold' test can be a significant hurdle that frequently traps the unwary and leads to the dismissal of applications. This forum is for 'Rice and Asplund' discussions and there is also a 'closed' forum for members of SRL-R to discuss their own case applications

Sharing and discussion about day-to-day issues arising from and associated with family law related matters.  These might include legislation, court practices, procedures, personnel, experiences and judgements, lawyers and their practice of family law and other related operational and practices issues.

Matters relating the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of Child Abduction and relocation overseas. International Family Law Legislation and Country's practices in relation to the return of abducted children.

The new Family relationship centers are fast being rolled out. Discussions about any aspects of the new centers

Violence in the home and relationships. Involvement of the Police, Courts and Welfare Agencies in families. This forum includes discussions around the issuances of AVO's and DVO's.

Issues with Grandparents having contact problems or being denied contact

If you need to vent, complain, moan or get on a soapbox then post here. If your posts in other Family Law forums (above) are off topic/venting/soap boxing/complaining, they may be edited, deleted or moved here by the site moderators.

Issues and discussions relating to child protection services for all agencies dealing with children and parents

Children's Rights, Parental Rights, The "Best Interest of the Child principal, Natural Justice, and fundamental human rights of children, parents and families. Personal experience in getting contact with children

Discussion related to Child Support matters arising from the new legislation

A range of matters around various child Support cases

The Child Support Agency (CSA) is legislated to regulate child maintenance payments from payer parents to payee parents

Anything to do with Child suppoort that is not specific to other forums

Policies - Child Support Agency

The Tribunal is the first level of external review of decisions made by Centrelink about social security, family assistance, education or training payments. From 1 January 2007, the Tribunal will also be the first level of external review of most decisions made by the Child Support Agency.

Shared Parenting  – Here as loving parents we explore and share our lived experiences of Shared Parenting, also called Equal Parenting, Equally Shared Parenting, Joint Parenting , co-parenting or balanced parenting.

Seeking better outcomes for children - How can we promote and better inform the public, Federal and State Governments, Schools and Institutions of the vital need for Shared Parenting in Children's lives, in the best interests of children and Families

A shared Parenting Plan or Parenting Agreement sets out the practical schedules and care arrangements for children so that parents can share time with their children more equally and share the care and nurture of their children most effectively. What does a Shared Parenting Plan, Agreement or Schedule look like? We look at example (model) parenting plans and your feedback on what works for you and your children, balancing times and responsibilities and lessons learned to benefit parents wanting to share parent their children.

Children and parents on mass have been denied an equal or substantially equal relationship and parenting time together after separation or divorce – How is the judicial, administrative, beaurocratic and cultural denial of Equal Shared Parenting Time damaging our children and rendering a generation or more of children parentless, and fathers made childless. Mothers are being denied essential contact with their children as well. So called professional "experts" including psychologists, through their opinions and advocacy in Family Courts and Welfare Services are condemning children to a life without one parent . Parents' role and need to continue nurturing and raising their children is often ignored and denied by antiquated sole-parent-custody social models rooted in 1960's radical feminist ideologies that are antagonistic to men and fathers. Tell us your story and what harms are being perpetrated on your children and you, the Mums and Dads, and what are your direct experiences with the Family Courts, its practitioners and State agencies and their affect on your parenting time outcomes and health, well being and happiness of your children.

Conflict often continues after all the legal affairs have been completed. Children need to be supported and loved by both parents and not become the battle ground of parental unfinished emotional business. It is time to move the separated family to collaborative and constructive communications; this often means you need to learn skills of problem solving, effective communication and anger management.

Good behavioural management is about a holistic approach that gives more attention to building loving relationships, respect and clear guidance rather then punishment or consequences. The old way of parenting children is changing. It is changing to give more respect to children and recognise they have needs connected to their development stage.

Parenting advice  sharing your knowledge and experience in caring for, nurturing and protecting your children. How to address health problems, diet, exercise, sports, discipline, entertainment and engaging in play.  Coping with sibling rivalries, what developmental milestones to expect and age appropriate activities for children. Birthdays, Mothers Day, Fathers Day and other special days;  making the most of precious time with your children. Being strong and assertive for your child and you; requiring equal treatment by authorities in the face of active discrimination against single parents at schools, medical centres and welfare agencies. Everyone is different; every parent shares a uniquely personal relationship with their children. Encourage each other to share your personal stories of love and relating with your child.

Information and discussion about Childrens health and developmental issues especially in relation to separate households

Information and discussion about health related matters facing separated parents

Separated parents face numerous difficulties in arranging new accomodations and finances. It is often extremly complex to extracate from a joint financial regime especially where parenst have interests in company structures, shares and other financial investments.  

Sharing and discussion of experiences, issues, ideas, information and resources associated with the day-to-day activities of living a separated family life

The SPCA oulines their policy and areas of interest

Self representation is not an easy business but this forum may give you advice and assistance if you are thinking about being self represented.

Dads in Distress is a dedicated support group of men whose immediate concern is to stem the present trend of male suicide due to the trauma of divorce or separation

Mothers, this is an area for you to post into with your unique Family Law or other 'Mothering' issues that are not covered in other 'FLWG' forums. Please share with us your experiences and offer suggestions for other women currently facing some of the same challenges that you have faced. Fathers are also VERY welcome in this Forum.

There is much reasearch from notable authorities in the field of Family Law, Child Support  and Parenting issues. Much of this research is flaky or contraversial. The research often determines the outcomes of judicial decisions that affects the lives of children and parents. This forum discusses a range of research. Credit or Disagree?

Notifications of events and discussions around conferences and summits

This forum is for topics that are venting and or old subject matter not related to other forums. If you need to vent or get on a soapbox then post here. If your posts in other forums are off topic or are venting or soap boxing, they may be moved here by the site moderators.

This is the forum where you ask questions and get replies you may not like or even expect !

Letters and items relating to active lobbying around the many and varied issues associated with Families

Announcements, information, news and discussion about public broadcasts, podcasts, publications, etc. related to family breakdown, family law, post separation shared parenting, child support and related issues and matters.

Advisories of any known site issues

Feedback relating to site layout and functions on the site

Anything of a humorous nature, but not sexist or crass in nature

Items out of New Zealand

Items out of the UK

Items out of Canada

Items out of the USA

Items out of any other countries